LDR爱情生态 pt 2

长距离的恋爱-人爱得深，分隔两地，心仍相连。

我觉得在一个月里，如果你和对方很聊的来的话，那也该要见见对方了。一个月的时间说来不觉得很长，但要来的终是要来的。哪怕赌上一博，跨山越海都好，就当是给自己一个冒险的奇幻之旅。坐在飞机里的那段旅程，你心里可能会一直处于犹豫和紧张的状态。衣服有穿好吗？发型应该ok吧？见面要说什么啊？ 手心冒着汗，自己努力练习着自以为最自然的笑容。

一下飞机的那一刻，心念‘阿弥陀佛...阿弥陀佛...’好像蛮有用的，可以平复你紧张的情绪。好吧，就是这一刻了。是地狱还是天堂，来看看上天的安排呗。‘这样笑应该还可以吧？’ ‘他会不会拿着牌子写了我的名字啊？’  ‘为什么我会在这里？’ ..... 等等等等的问题一直在脑海浮现，直到在抵达厅见到他的时候才会慢慢恢复意识。天啊，终于见面了！这句话接得有点浮夸，接着和对方握手加拥抱，显得有点客气，有点陌生。天上的云朵逐渐飘到两旁，微微的一道光降在你俩的头上。

啊，确定了，你这一个是天堂喔。

如果真的如上面所说的感觉，那就先来个咖啡纯聊天，凡事都得要慢慢来，越慢越好，不要太驱逐。约个安静的咖啡厅比较好，毕竟气氛是有一定的影响力。聊聊飞行的心情，或聊聊看到对方的感觉，还可以来点小甜蜜。如果聊天中有带黄色趣味的内容可要小心哦。安全第一的原则不可或缺，用自己的小聪明转个话题就行了。从中，你可以开始观察他的谈吐用词，衣着打扮，最重要的是留意他有没有四臭（狐臭，口臭，体臭，脚臭）。开玩笑的啦，最重要还是感觉对不对，就此而已。

to be continue

COMPLICATION

shitty feeling of letting the past running in my mind

HOW I SEE UTAR CAMPUS, KAMPAR

I was supposed to share these awesome views of Utar since my visit on March, well finally I'm now tended to do so. Haha, I guess that the campus shouldn't have vary much in the past six months. This building is what my mind would think of whenever I came across the word 'Utar'. Couldn't help with it, it's too iconic.

It is not hard to find element of the traditional Chinese architecture elements throughout the new building in Utar. You know, like long linear corridor, shiheyuan (courtyard), fengshui implementations, symmetrical proportion and what not. I think it's interesting to have students study in such ways, and these spaces have no doubt in adding value to the surrounding environment.

This pre-fab private chalet could be found at several area around the campus, providing students to have an individual chill out/study space, though they are not very well maintained. But somehow this reflects how student's welfare are being considered. Just another restaurant for the mosquitoes then.

Greens are valuable. The campus are very well landscaped, despite there are still dense daylight exposures in some area. For the courtyards, they should be appreciated. These skinny tall trees ain't cheap you know.

They are more architecture elements to be found. Took a good glimpse of the languages they applied

This library of Utar is my favorite. Understandable details, and I cherish how the rhythms of the windows are carefully arranged. However, the building seems to be under-maintained especially on the bold envelope. Those individual elements on the outside are somehow outstanding, kinda lacking shades. They didn't tell the same stories with the premise though, I think.

You will be welcomed by an opened main staircase with skylight while entering the building. Love it

This lake view in the library is totally breathtaking. Imagine while you get so stressed up, you can just take a short break and enjoy such wonderful scene of blue skies, you know.

So the architect of UTAR development is The Architectural Network (TAN). For your information, they received the PAM gold award in the education category 2013. And my current boss Jay was the UTAR council member. That explains the cups in my office pantry are labeled with UTAR logos. Woops

That's all, should also thank to the two quties for bringing me a day trip around UTAR. Ms Lee Sau Yin and Ms Elaine Wong Ee Ting. I love the campus, students should have embrace it! :D

为何吃素？

今天是农历初十五，大家纷纷到素食馆享受清淡养生的饭菜。

今天吃素的人比平时的多，是蛮值得欣慰的一件事

然而，吃素背后的意义，不是每个人都晓得。

大家都知道，吃素可以减少杀生频率。

哪怕就那么一天三餐，已经可以避免厮杀上万只的猪，牛或禽类。

但切记，不是今天吃淡了，明天又继续大鱼大肉

当然你有权利这么做，但这样反而让自己变本加厉

有了暴饮爆食的借口，也破坏吃素的意义了。

用什么心态做一件事非常的重要，吃素也不例外。

我们是平民百姓，没在管五戒

对我来说，吃素除了让自己的食欲减低

借用初一十五吃素的机会

让自己减少杀生的恶业，积善积功德

没有炸鸡，没有红烧排骨，没有清蒸石斑也可以很美味的！

再来，吃素的其一要件：不能浪费食物。

这是培养新新人类态度的好方法

过着好吃好穿的时代里，就很容易奢侈起来

吃素让自己好好的珍惜得来的食物，得来的福。

在下是个小小，小小的佛教子弟，不能说什么开示大众

只想和你分享吃素心得

吃素不是我从小培养的习惯，但从身体不舒服开始到现在

都非常享受吃素所带来的乐趣，觉得它百无一害

建议大家吃素尽量在素食馆里面享用

通常里面的氛围会让人心静，气消哦

人潮也会显得比平时慈祥一些些。

阿弥陀佛

"HEART OF GRATITUDE"

A very meaningful story from a forward email.. U guys should take a read on it :)

Heart of Gratitude
A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said: "I am blind, please help." There were only a few coins in the hat.



A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words.

Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were. The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, "Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?"

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The man said, "I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way."

I wrote: "Today is a beautiful day but I cannot see it."

Both signs told people that the boy was blind. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind. The second sign told people that they were so lucky that they were not blind. Should we be surprised that the second sign was more effective?



Moral of the Story: Be thankful for what you have.. Be creative. Be innovative. Think differently and positively.

When life gives you a 100 reasons to cry, show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear. Keep the faith and drop the fear.

The most beautiful thing is to see a person smiling…

And even more beautiful is, knowing that you are the reason behind it!!!

Enjoy your day with a heart of gratitude.

생활의 철학

생활의 철학
Philosophy of Life



人之所以痛苦，在于追求错误的东西。

如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。因为你自己的内心，你放不下。


好好的管教你自己，不要管别人。

你随时要认命，因为你是人。

这个世界本来就是痛苦的，没有例外的。

你什么时候放下，什么时候就没有烦恼。


每一种创伤，都是一种成熟。

当你烦恼的时候，你就要告诉你自己，这一切都是假的，你烦恼什么？

根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁，如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗？


忌妒别人，不会给自己增加任何的好处。忌妒别人，也不可能减少别人的成就。

永远不要浪费你的一分一秒，去想任何你不喜欢的人。

得不到的东西，我们会一直以为他是美好的，那是因为你对他了解太少，没有时间与他相处在一起。


当有一天，你深入了解后，你会发现原不是你想像中的那么美好。

这个世间只有圆滑，没有圆满的。

不要刻意去猜测他人的想法，如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断，通常都会有错误的。

你要感谢告诉你缺点的人。


时间总会过去的，让时间流走你的烦恼吧！

不要因为小小的争执，远离了你至亲的好友，也不要因为小小的怨恨，忘记了别人的大恩。

感谢上苍我所拥有的，感谢上苍我所没有的。

当你手中抓住一件东西不放时，你只能拥有这件东西，如果你肯放手，你就有机会选择别的。


人的心若死执自己的观念，不肯放下，那么他的智慧也只能达到某种程度而已。

如果你能够平平安安的渡过一天，那就是一种福气了。多少人在今天已经见不到明天的太阳，多少人在今天已经成了残废，多少人在今天已经失去了自由，多少人在今天已经家破人亡。

恶口永远不要出自于我们的口中，不管他有多坏，有多恶。

你愈骂他，你的心就被污染了，你要想，他就是你的善知识。

你不要常常觉得自己很委曲，你应该要想，他对我这样已经很好了，这就是修行的功夫。

世界原本就不是属于你，因此你用不着抛弃，要抛弃的是一切的执著。万物皆为我所用，但非我所属。


学会用理解的，欣赏的眼光去看对方，而不是以自以为是的关心去管对方。

成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。

发光并非太阳的专利，你也可以发光。

你可以用爱得到全世界，你也可以用恨失去全世界。

爱的力量大到可以使人忘记一切，却又小到连一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容纳。

人总是珍惜未得到的，而遗忘了所拥有的。


如你想要拥有完美无暇的友谊，可能一辈子找不到朋友。